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1. If the meeting has not started at the scheduled time, most often I... | Wait patiently for the meeting to begin. | Talk with other participants about business or unrelated topics. | Ask the group to set a time limit, after which the meeting starts or is canceled. | Leave the meeting because I have more productive things to do. |
2. If a meeting starts without a clear purpose or agenda, most often I... | Say nothing since most meetings start this way. | Listen attentively in hopes that the purpose and agenda will be identified. | Ask the meeting leader to give the purpose and the agenda. | Remind the meeting leader of the correct way to start a meeting. |
3. During discussions, most often I... | Listen unless asked a question. | Speak up when an issue impacts my area. | Share my views and ask others to share theirs. | Speak the most because other people are quiet. |
4. When someone makes a recommendation with which I disagree, most often I... | Wait to see if someone else objects. | Speak up if I believe the person is open to critical comments. | Ask the person to explain why he or she supports the recommendation and then share my thoughts. | Tell the person what I believe and why. |
5. When a person with higher authority disagrees with a view I expressed, most often I... | Remain silent since the person will take the action he or she desires. | Acknowledge the person's right to disagree with me. | Ask the person to explain why he or she disagrees and then share my thoughts. | Tell the person what I believe and why. |
6. When a person who is a subordinate or peer disagrees with a view I expressed, most often I... | Remain silent to avoid offending the person. | Acknowledge the person's right to disagree with me. | Ask the person to explain why he or she disagrees and then share my thoughts. | Tell the person what I believe and why. |
7. If the discussion goes off topic for several minutes, most often I... | Stay quiet to avoid adding to the time spent in the off-topic discussion. | Try to steer the conversation back to the main point. | Ask that we record a reminder to discuss the topic later so we can get back to the main point. | Tell the group that we need to stay on topic. |
8. If the discussion leads me to an important thought for the team that is off topic, most often I... | Make a mental note to mention the thought at another time. | Jot the thought down so I don't forget it. | Ask that we record a reminder to discuss the thought later so we can stay on the main point. | Tell the team about the thought and engage in a discussion about it. |
9. If I feel the meeting is wasting my time, most often I... | Show respect by trying to stay tuned in and listening. | Start doing other work during the meeting to try to be productive. | Let the group know of my concern and ask if anyone else has this same concern. | Leave the meeting because I have more productive things to do. |
10. When I believe I have a solution that can help the team, most often I... | Wait to see if someone else offers the solution. | Speak up if I believe the team is open to solutions.
| Offer my solution and invite people to discuss strengths, weaknesses and other alternatives. | Tell the team what I believe and why. |
Add the number of responses in each of the four categories and record below. Then multiply the number of responses by the multiplier to arrive at four sub-totals. Finally, add the sub-totals to arrive at a total score.
Use the guide below to interpret your score.
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